So extremely thorough and well-written. Delayed gratification is what most people cannot tolerate. But you show here, that with awareness and knowledge about how consistency is key and little things pay off for the future, this is really when the growth (and magic) starts to happen. Bravo, Adam.
I think an investment mentality is key. Work today does not bring immediate benefit, but will pay dividends in time.
This model is true for almost everything we value. It is short term, instant gratification that tends to damn us. Addiction is of course the polar opposite of an investment mentality.
This captures what I’m aiming for right now. I’m investing in different areas of life so that I can emerge in a holistically healthier place. And trying to do that without living in the future/past. Investing is a great metaphor for recovery, one I’m going to think over for the rest of the day.
What a spot-on article. I have been in recovery for over 5+ years, and this is one of the best columns on post-addiction life I have read, and I have read a bunch of them.
Come to think of it, may I share this comment? I can redact your name if you’d like. And no problem if you don’t want to share at all. It’s just such a pleasure to see such a review of my ideas, and I’m so glad I can help.
There are of course things that are instantly rewarding. And not everything has to be an investment. But I thought this was a helpful topic for people in the post addiction landscape. I’ve met many people in different groups who have asked, and I’m grossly simplifying here, ‘What’s the point of being sober?’ I hope this might help provide one angle to one answer to that question. It just pays off. Maybe there’s an article there too. ‘What’s the point?’
So extremely thorough and well-written. Delayed gratification is what most people cannot tolerate. But you show here, that with awareness and knowledge about how consistency is key and little things pay off for the future, this is really when the growth (and magic) starts to happen. Bravo, Adam.
Thank you so much Holly. That ‘Stocks for Dummies’ book I read last year has, ahem, paid dividends.
I think an investment mentality is key. Work today does not bring immediate benefit, but will pay dividends in time.
This model is true for almost everything we value. It is short term, instant gratification that tends to damn us. Addiction is of course the polar opposite of an investment mentality.
Good points well made, Spiff. Thank you for reading.
This captures what I’m aiming for right now. I’m investing in different areas of life so that I can emerge in a holistically healthier place. And trying to do that without living in the future/past. Investing is a great metaphor for recovery, one I’m going to think over for the rest of the day.
Thank you for reading, Liya. A holistically healthier place- I like your words, and they nail the idea. Thank you for your insights!
Love this analogy, and it's a great reminder for people to stay the course and not give up too soon.
That’s it isn’t it? Stay the course, trust the process. Thank you, Ellie.
Yes, you can share it. No need to redact. I'm past the point of trying to keep things in the shadows.
Thank you, Bill
What a spot-on article. I have been in recovery for over 5+ years, and this is one of the best columns on post-addiction life I have read, and I have read a bunch of them.
Come to think of it, may I share this comment? I can redact your name if you’d like. And no problem if you don’t want to share at all. It’s just such a pleasure to see such a review of my ideas, and I’m so glad I can help.
Wow, Bill. I’m very grateful for you to say. Glad it hit like that. Thank you.
Brilliant analogy. Thoughtful and well written. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for reading and sharing your kind words.
Great analogy with the stock market Adam!
Thank you Stefano!
These are good! Namasta
Thank you for reading. And thanks for joining too!
Namaste.
That’s very kind of you, my friend. And what powerful words to come from The Process. How very fitting, and I’m honoured.
Hey, would it be possible to get your permission to share your review? No worries if not, brother. I’m just glad it struck a chord with you.
🙏 thank you.
Thank you, Mike.
There are of course things that are instantly rewarding. And not everything has to be an investment. But I thought this was a helpful topic for people in the post addiction landscape. I’ve met many people in different groups who have asked, and I’m grossly simplifying here, ‘What’s the point of being sober?’ I hope this might help provide one angle to one answer to that question. It just pays off. Maybe there’s an article there too. ‘What’s the point?’
Thanks for reading, Mike.